The "entertainment" you choose determines your future.

The "entertainment" you choose determines your future.

Learning, as long as with "not bad or a long knowledge" mentality, is a very good way of decompression. And can establish a "positive" network, and may even become your real expertise, what is more cost-effective than it? Only want to adjust your attitude is: don't take learning as a chore, That's all.
An excerpt from the "time management" the theory of happiness
Author / Wu Danru
"You are so busy, you have time to paint?"
"You are so busy, how do you still have time to learn?"
Why? My answer is related to my perception of stress.
The pressure will bring anxiety and even out of control behavior. Everyone is afraid of the source of the pressure is not the same. Obviously, I'm not afraid of the pressure of hard work, I am more afraid of the pressure between people. A large crowd of people sitting in the afternoon tea in the restaurant idle idle gossip, molars, often make me feel like a fly without head, the final harvest only mouth parched and tongue scorched.
I like to learn. Learning is fun and rewarding, whatever you're interested in learning, after the entry test, will enter a "narcissistic" stage.
I set the "learning" as "entertainment channel" ". Of course, sometimes I also feel that they "move a stone to break their own feet", such as in the face of "management economics" and other examinations, or occasionally have a more compact schedule. But I never because of the "study" into the life schedule and regret. They are constructive stress that will allow you to get another kind of spiritual compensation.
The usual way of reducing the pressure of the common people, there are the following.
Flash flood method. Work or life when there is pressure, the most afraid of is that you choose the "entertainment channel" will bring you greater pressure. For example, once I saw a head, usually laughing and talking, but when too much pressure, he will be in public without expected conditions, a hair mad lion. I have watched him put the cup into one of his subordinates, because subordinates wrote a typo in the report.
His usual way to extract is to play mahjong, but very obvious, playing mahjong completely helpless.
Once, I saw his bizarre behavior colleagues at home: he does not work well, playing mahjong and bad luck, happened to someone not too long in the eyes, after a little harsh touch about the other three, his mood is not great, the moment over the table, I was on the point of flying the ashtray hit.
New method. You crazy shopping, playing cards, without restraint on drugs, alcoholism, Carnival to escape pressure is usually temporary, will only increase a part of pressure, paralysis after a while, the physical and mental health are affected, the heart still empty, life more boring.
Total change method. Some people are good at using the "drastic change in life" decompression. When you are stressed, you will want to come to a "big move": quit, change jobs, and even break up with a lover. Because they are good at "blame", not good at solving. As long as one has not shun, all feel "must be * * * * harm will do so, as long as he (or it) will be good". Completely refused to face the problem of the results is: come and go, lose the ability to accumulate experience in the work; when this person's partner, is how innocent.
Learning, as long as with "not bad or a long knowledge" mentality, is a very good way of decompression. It will give you comfort and a sense of accomplishment.
Many years ago, I told myself: life is very limited. In order to allow themselves to experience different fun, I will arrange themselves every two years to learn new things, such as pottery, photography, flamenco, performing, swimming or diving...... Although I don't have a "home" with professionals than I know, if not fur, can only be regarded as just entering the "dermal", but they have made me a fanatic, are able to make my life a different sense of achievement, the accident gave me less writing inspiration, increase the number of subjects.
Even I am now the work of the chair, in ten years ago, but also as a "cram school" of the entertainment channel. Some people find absolutely no experience I have been involved in this line at the time, many of my friends told me "don't self destruct writer image" once, or very sincere to me "you are not really suitable for a" proposal. I also because they have been very jerky, want to escape, but later, I changed myself: I regard it as a "someone to give me money and tutoring courses, encourage myself to try to challenge, imperceptibly, it has become one of my main work.
In the study of the other harvest is to make a lot of like-minded friends.
People who are willing to learn, are willing to meet the characteristics of the sun, but also very willing to provide assistance in their professional.
Learning can be reduced, but also to establish a "positive" network, and may even become your real expertise, what is more cost-effective than it? Only want to adjust your attitude is: don't take learning as a chore, That's all.
You choose the "entertainment", often unconsciously decide your future.
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